‘If they can’t obey the rules they can’t be in the house’: Father bans neighbors' kids from entering his house after they repeatedly allow his dog to escape, neighbor parents get involved

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    [Am I wrong] for banning neighbor kids from my house after repeatedly leaving the door open allowing my dog to escape?

    'I'm surprised that after 4 escapes, you still have a dog,
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    My son has friends that come over all the time. I have reminded these kids to make sure they shut the doors so my dog doesn't get out. My dog has gotten out four times now because of these kids leaving
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    the door open and it's always been difficult to get her back in. She's still young and doesn't mind very well (we are working on training but she hasn't done very well with it. She's an active
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    dog and has not done well with recall). Just recently a neighbor's dog went missing because it got scared of fireworks and took off. Unfortunately the dog has not been found 10 days later. Last
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    night the kids came over and my dog got out again and it took awhile to get her back. When we finally got her back the kids were still at my house and I told them they can't come back over. I explained that I have told them
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    multiple times to shut the door when they come in and they continue to not do so and I am not going to lose my dog over it. Maybe I over reacted but I was scared my dog would have the same fate as the neighbor dog.
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    rasalscan 23h ago NTA. Actions have consequences and you shouldn't lose you dog over their inattention.
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    FlirtyHoneybun • 23h ago . Not the a hole at all. Look, I get that kids forget things, but when it comes to pet safety, there's no room for "oops." I've had to have the same conversation with my nephew
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    about our front gate. After the third time explaining why it matters, I started making him practice opening and closing it properly. If they can't respect something that basic in your home, they don't deserve the privilege of being there.
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    Old_Celebration3536 23h ago • NTA. tbh it sounds like you've been more than patient, four times is a pattern, not an accident, your don's safety has to come first, even if that means setting firmer boundaries with the kids
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    . AcanthocephalaOne... ⚫ 23h ago NTA I'd have done the same thing. They aren't listening, and now you need to act. Honestly, I'm surprised that after 4 escapes, you still have a dog.
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    BeachinLife1 • 23h ago NTA. If they can't do one simple thing (do they not have doors at home?) and shut the door, then they can't come back. It's that simple.
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    And besides, if either the AC or the heat is on, I'm not cooling/heating the neighborhood!
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    Prime_fem⚫ 23h ago You didn't overreact at all. Your dog's safety has to come first, and if the kids can't respect such a simple rule after multiple reminders, then banning them was the right call. Hopefully this teaches them some responsibility too. NTA
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    • Specific_Design9383 23h ago Protect your dog. No excuse for the kids to not listen or show consideration.
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    Allo... 23h ago Edited 14h ago NTA. But I think you need to have a discussion with their parents about their children's carelessness and inability to follow a very basic direction and explain to them why their children aren't allowed in your home anymore. This is a parenting problem their parents need to address.
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    Specific-Morning-985 23h ago NTA. How is this even a debate? Your house, your rules and your dog's well being takes priority over those stupid a kids.
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    Unfair_Desk_4539 • 23h ago NTA how old are the kids to be dumb enough to leave a door open. Where I live that is asking for mosquitoes to eat you alive
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    SEYMOURASSES66 23h ago . Nope not the a hole. If they can't obey the rules they can't be in the house.
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    SubstantialShop1538 17h ago . Who allows their kids to leave a door open at any house??? That's just disrespectful. NTA
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    ablestrange • 23h ago NTA, the only thing I would do differently is make your child the responsible party. You can't have your friends over if you keep letting the dog out.
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    I-Really-Hate-Fish 15h ago NTA. If they're old enough to visit people's houses, they're old enough to understand how doors work.

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